Sometimes - when my
quirky writing major personality dominates my brain - I like to
personify the years of my life. 2013 - the junkie riding the
rollercoaster of highs and lows. 2014 - the "strawweight" wrestler
fighting her way back to health. And 2015? I have no idea. But I do
know one thing.
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One thing: it'll be sparkly! |
As I sit in the kitchen listening to the
pattering of rain off our house roof, I know that in a few short hours, it will be time to say
hello to 2015. And, though the details are fuzzy, I'm pretty sure my greeting will
mean something like this:
H: holding onto
hope. It blows my mind to compare the weak, pale,
NG tube-fed girl that limped through her freshman year of college with the girl typing these words right now. Two months ago, escaping the 88 lb mark was
impossible. A dream poked and prodded until it bruised. It took time and lots of impatient patience, but I stepped on the
scale two days ago and saw the needle spin to a
healthy 100 lbs!
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Perfect hiking weight! |
At times, a
diagnosis can act like a blinder. Celiac disease? Focus on the
forbidden foods. Fibromyalgia? Only feel the pain. If 2014 taught me anything, though, its that recovery is
possible. Bodies and minds
heal - at a snails' pace and full of slime, but it will happen. In this coming year, as changes hit my life and more
challenges pop up, I'm throwing my blinders in the trash. But "H-O-P-E" is
stickin' with me.
E: embracing the
unknown. As I mentioned in my last post, some of the biggest constants in my life - my parents, my home - will
transform come this summer. And where will this college celiac be in the midst of mission move? That's also up for
debate. Sometimes, the fact that I'm technically a junior and almost
20 years old (yikes!) scares me as much as a slice of gluten-filled
bread slapped on my plate. The adult world?
No thanks. Right now, I'm perfectly alright sticking in the Loma college
bubble.
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With this view? The Loma bubble is pretty sweet! |
Added to those
unknowns? The fact that, even after a year of practice, my tummy still throws
tantrums that I always fail to diagnose. The human body - to be blunt - is terrifying overall. We try to tame it with
makeup and exercise, heal it with juicing
cleanses and vitamin substances, and even analayze it with some keyboard clicks and Internet surfing (A new rare disease I've never heard of? That
must be it!). For now, though, I'm done swimming through the
mystery. I'm staring at my sometimes bloated, sometimes skinny, sometimes upset
body in the mirror and giving it a thumbs up - along with my
empty 2015 calendar.
L: limiting the
limits. I'm what my peers would call a Type A personality. Through determination and pure stubborness, I've snatched a
4.0 GPA throughout high school and college despite my medical issues. Being a Type A is a blesssing and a curse, though. Because despite all the positives, it also means I like to
analyze. To plan. To weigh the pros and cons to reach the most
logical conclusion. And while that's great for geometry (oh, freshman year of high school, those were the days...) it's not so
hot for the other 23 hours a day.
In 2014, I walked a lot of
paths previously marked "off-limits." I practiced schoolwork, but I also practiced the art of friendship. I devoured my first
Swoffle (now that's a phrase I hadn't predicted); I shared my recipe for
Sweet Potato Salmon Sliders and watched the
Internet readers eat it right up. I upped my product
bloggin' reviews, went to my first
Writer's Conference, and started cooking all my own meals. In 2015, I want it to be even
better. Less worries, more fun. Less
planning, more spontanienty. Less limits - more
living.
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This year in pics! |
L: listening more. In 2014, I learned how to
listen better to my body. To nourish myself with delicious and vitamin-filled foods - like my favorite towers of nana ice cream. To
rest when tired, but challenge myself otherwise. The hardest part of having an autoimmune disease is
trusting the body that has betrayed you.
Some days that's
easier than others. But, come 2015, I want to keep my ears and mind
open. Not only to my inner commentary, but those of my family and friends. I finished off my college semester by giving my closest friends
letters of my love and appreciation. Even though I was the one writing and
reflected on our adventures that year, I felt like I was
hearing for the first time. Hearing how lucky I am - how amazing my friends are. How much more growing and joy is yet to
come.
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2014! |
O: "oh," the sound I hope to make every day. It's easy to let myself be
swept away in the marathon of the new year. The upcoming college semester, family
relocation and reunions with PLNU friends and teachers. But, that's not the "swept away" I'm looking for.
I'm looking for more
walks around my college campus in
awe over the beauty of the ocean. More shocking university lectures that make me see the textbook as more than a
stack of ink-heavy paper. More hard workouts that remind me of my newly recovered
strength. More moments when all I can think of saying is one simple letter: "
oh."
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"Oh" - how small we are! |
The personality of 2015 is still forming in my mind. Will it be the kickbutt superhero I'm waiting for? Or the mousy bookworm whose knowledge soon expands beyond books? As I relax with the family tonight and eat a big slice of New Year's chocolate cake, I'm okay with any of the options. As long as, this time next year, I've had at least a couple moments fit for a Casey "hello."
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What are your New Year's resolutions? How are you planning to celebrate 2015? Comment below!
Happy New Year Casey! I love following your journey and I'm so excited to see you so happy and healthy. Gluten free chocolate cake sounds like a great way to ring in the new year... we went out for Thai food! One of my favorite gluten free meals! :)
ReplyDeleteThai food sounds delicious! New year's is definitely the time to enjoy some of the favorite eats! Happy 2015! :D
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